About Me
I am a person-centred therapist, meaning that I do not offer direct advice or instruction, but that I will help you to explore your needs from your perspective. I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental, and collaborative space where together we will explore the issues affecting you in your life, at your own pace.
Together we can explore the difficulties you are experiencing, be they internal or external, personal or relational. The purpose of my work is not to "fix", but to increase your understanding and awareness, ultimately helping you to make change where you feel change is needed, and to accept yourself on your own terms.
Having sat in both the therapist’s and client’s position, I understand what it means to seek help, and how it can feel to be passed from pillar to post, attending referrals, being turned down for support, trying to find the right counsellor. From the point of our first contact, you will be met with respect, your needs and concerns will heard and taken seriously.
I specialize in LGBTQIA+ issues, addiction & compulsive behaviours, and suicidal ideation.
I also work the following issues:
AIDS/HIV
Anxiety
Bereavement
Depression
Health-related issues
Identity issues
Loss
Relationships
Self-esteem
Self-harm
Sex-related issues
Sexual identity
Sexuality
Shame
Trauma
Work-related issues
If I have not mentioned any issues that you need support with, but you feel we would be a good match, I would welcome contact from you.
My Background
My original training and study was in English & Music (Keele University) and Musical Theatre Writing & Production (Goldsmiths College). Had somebody told me that I would one day be working as a therapist, I might have laughed them out of the room. I am not where I expected to be in life, but I am deeply grateful for where I have landed.
Life has taken me in unexpected directions. Following university, I worked for many years in temp jobs (my first role was in door-to-door sales and I don’t think I lasted one week). I spent a long time feeling lost and aimless. I also wasn’t acknowledging my mental health, nor the deeper struggles that I was concealing with unhealthy coping mechanisms.
Making the choice to attend therapy was my first step on a path towards a more meaningful and fulfilling life. It was no easy journey, and the more I learned about myself the more I sometimes wished to hide. By speaking with trained and supportive professionals, seeking community support when needed, and setting myself personal goals and objectives to work towards (even if it was just looking forward to the next big movie or video game release), I was able to learn what was uniquely important to me, to take responsibility for my life and choices, and to continue becoming the person I wanted to be.
Therapy can be rewarding, life-changing, but it can also be difficult. It can take a lot of trust and a lot of bravery to allow yourself to be vulnerable before another person, to draw back the curtain and reveal all those parts of yourself and your past that have caused you shame, regret, or even outright turmoil. If you are seeking support, if you are reading this right now, then you are already demonstrating to yourself the bravery and courage it takes to seek help.
Training
CPCAB Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
CPCAB Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Studies
CPCAB Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Skills
MHFA Adult Mental Health First Aid
Where I Work
Phoenix Health & Wellbeing (Counsellor)
MESMAC (Counsellor)
Samaritans (Mentor & Listening Volunteer)
Serendipity York (Associate Counsell0r)
Private Practice
Recent Study & CPD
Far From The Tree (Andrew Solomon)
Staring At The Sun (Irvin D. Yalom)
The Body Keeps The Score (Bessel Van Der Kolk)
The Transgender Issue (Shon Faye)
Relationally Queer (Dominic Davies & Silva Neves)
Trauma Awareness Training (Phoenix)
HIV Awareness Training (MESMAC)